Thanks for this discussion I am enjoying it! And appreciate the civility. Let me be clear I never whaled off and hit my toddlers. But they did get age-appropriate discipline. I remember one time my two year old daughter laid down in a target and had an absolute melt down so I casually stood up against a rack of stuff and (quite uncomfortably) stood there for what felt like 3 years but was probably more like 3 minutes. Half the people that walked by said “good job mom” and half the people “gave the LOOK”. she realized her tantrum was getting nowhere and then we proceeded with our day.
I have no issue with physically disciplining a horse that comes into my barn that is aggressive. I’ve had many many horses come in here that the owners were afraid of and literally it took a few come to Jesus moments, and the horse realized I was a bigger asshole than they were and then they were perfect model citizens, and I handed them back to their owner. about 30 seconds of physical discipline and then the horse worked wonderful for me on the ground and in the ring. These animals outweigh me by 10 times and they are herd hierarchy based so if I’m not the alpha, then they will be. And it’s not even whipping like the Charlotte video. It’s a couple of good hard smacks backing them up a bit and just the conviction that I’m in charge and they are not.
But I digress from the CD video. Not a great moment, but I think an example was made of her because of the timing. I have a bridge in Alaska to sell you if you think that kind of crap doesn’t happen every day around the world. And I’ll come back to the mark todd video. He literally swatted the horse in the butt with an old broken branch, and people lost their collective cookies. And where is the thread with 1k plus responses to Isabel Werth being banned for the shit she’s put out in public for years. that’s why I roll my eyeballs so hard, my eye sockets have bruises on them