In Ontario we are encouraged to fill out a form about how we felt about each event. Which I truly like, the good and the bad. I do my best to fill out after each event.
There are some really good points in this thread which people have been able to word exactly how I felt. I wish I was better with my words that’s for sure.
Its not that we aren’t thankful, we most definitely are, or we wouldn’t spend $200+ for an event. I don’t know why this can’t just be discussed without people calling us ungrateful. We are happy to have events, and we appreciate it. I don’t doubt tons of man hours go into events as I have volunteered myself multiple times to help out and have seen what goes into it. I just don’t understand why they have become less personal about the events. The home feeling is gone in a way. Again to make it clear, we continue to event because we love it and support it and know that its not a walk in the park. How can it be years ago that there was all these little things and it seemed to not be an issue but now its gone.
I could see the uproar if this was brought up and never done before in the past. ie ribbons that were personalized with each event, some little trinket or a pen. That’s the thing, this has been done in the past, and now its gone. Prices have gone up, and little things have been taken away. Why is it wrong of us to question it? If we didn’t have it before it wouldn’t be something to question but we’ve had it before.
I also think the numbers speak volumes (at least here in Ontario) there are way less people eventing now as its become so expensive. Between the distance of the drive, to the entry fee, to the hours and money that go into lessons on top of that building up to that weekend. Keep in mind coaching at the event as well.
Each year it truly is less and less and its sad to see our sport slowly disappear because its easier and cheaper to do trillium shows or schooling shows and win back your entry. Some of our bigger events used to give saddle pads, or halters or a gift certificate, now you don’t even get that. I used to win little buckets for 4th place. Its not that I WANT that, its just why is it gone?
I am an amateur, I work very hard at my office job to afford my expensive habit. Is it a choice yes, but to someone who’s mommy and daddy pays for their made horses to take home all the ribbons, they don’t care. If I finish 5th in a division of 28, heck yes I am going to be proud and feel like that’s a first place ribbon, because I put so much blood, sweat and tears into this horse that i EARNED it. Everyone is different but it takes a lot for someone to board a horse, pay for an event, plus all the other little things like lessons, vets and farrier. Again its a luxury but we work hard for it so earning a placing is huge. The lower levels are so easily forgotten, but if you look, those are the money maker levels. Those are the ones that are always full, and they are the first stages of eventing, they are always a guarantee.