Child in my pasture- WWYD?

[wingedmare]

:eek::eek::eek:
I don’t know how I managed to get through reading all of this; I can’t imagine how you are dealing with it!! I send my thoughts across the pond to you.

I have never been more grateful for the (I am not joking here) 9’ fence with electric at the bottom and middle and constentina wire at the top with an electric gate you need a code for, that the nice old man who owns the property where my horses are kept put up…and I just thought he was over protective. Now I see he is on to somthing!

[birdsong]

OMG I have just returned from being sidetracked by the Steffen Peter thread with him popping a willy (or something like that)…never have I exploded hysterically like that before!! I felt like I was looking for Waldo…and found him!! Then it was to the Parelli bedroom stickart…after watching the Youtube cheese shop video…where do you guys come up with all this stuff??? I got lost…where did I start?

My head is spinning…which wreck should I run to next…its just too much for my simple self… h e l p…I’m just a NORMAL person!!! subcultures upon subcultures…All this time I just took it for face value…I’m an innocent…I really didn’t get it!

I need a Mojito No! No! make that a pear apple Mojito quick!!

As she goes giggling hysterically to the liquor store…I finally get it!!

I’M BECOMING!!

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[equinelaw]

So you missed the Spink thread? You’d better pour that drink first:)

[Chester_s_Mom]

[QUOTE=kookicat;3389180]
Wow, what an eventful day yesterday was!

The child’s mother turned up last night, at around 2am. She forced Gran to bring her to my farm. Mother was falling down drunk :no: She woke me be kicking my door. My SO was at work so I phoned the police, told them what was going on, and went down to see her.
([/QUOTE]

Someone else may have said this, but I am worried about the 'forcing" of Gran. Why didn’t GRAN call the police?? Sorry, but she is also an adult and (lacking a weapon) shouldn’t be able to be forced to go anywhere at 2 am…

[cloudyandcallie]

No one knows

[QUOTE=Chester’s Mom;3398477]
Someone else may have said this, but I am worried about the 'forcing" of Gran. Why didn’t GRAN call the police?? Sorry, but she is also an adult and (lacking a weapon) shouldn’t be able to be forced to go anywhere at 2 am…[/QUOTE]

You are right.
There may be a reason why Rosemary is so bad. But then it may also be that Grandma just couldn’t control her.

[equinelaw]

Gran produced 2 well adjusted and normal offspring and one bad apple. Probably not Gran’s fault.
KC had to try very hard not to punch drunk mother so no doubt a tired, older women with a sick husband just wasn’t up to fighting with the demon mother from hell?

[Chester_s_Mom]

OK, now caught up!!

I hate to say it KC, but moving may be in your best interest. As long as Gran lives nearby these two may swoop on to the scene. And after Gran is gone, guess who will probably move into her house?!

I am so, so sorry this is all happening and I will pray for everyone’s safety and sanity.

[lcw579]

Maybe with Kooki and her horses being MIA for a week, Drunk Mom and the Demon Spawn (almost sounds like the name of a bar band :winkgrin:) will focus their animosity elsewhere. Hopefully, they won’t turn their hatefulness towards Gran. I get the feeling that these two probably don’t have the best attention span so hopefully it will be out of sight out of mind. And in a perfect world they will be gone by the time Kooki returns.

However, with Kooki out of the picture, Farmer Dave and his animals better look out.

I like C&C’s idea of the tape recorder. Aren’t there small voice activated ones that Kooki could flip on when DM and DS rear their ugly heads?

[equinelaw]

I think its time to call the good sisters and let then know whats going on. They may have some pull?

[lcw579]

I’ve been wondering where those two were myself. Shouldn’t they have turned up to check on Gramps by now?

[cloudyandcallie]

[QUOTE=equinelaw;3398566]
I think its time to call the good sisters and let then know whats going on. They may have some pull?[/QUOTE]
I had forgotten about them until you brought them up a few posts ago.
So “how come” those 2 aren’t there helping out? I mean, if they are working, can’t they at least come over on weekends or days off?
England isn’t that big.

[JanM]

KC-are there any big mean looking friends of your SO or someone else that is a student or something where they would be available to housesit or something? I agree with the others about making out police reports-and you should be careful about going places alone. I imagine Mommie Dearest is a drunken bully and like all bullies will leave you alone in the face of greater force, so when you go to the shops ask someone to walk you to your car or else leave when others leave the store, and don’t park in a remote place even if you have to cruise the parking lot waiting for a good parking place. You have to be alert and protect yourself-carry a good metal whistle to call for help or one of those obnoxious canned air horn things people use at sports events and don’t be afraid to yell for help. Take care.

I bet the sisters aren’t coming anywhere near their drunken idiot of a sister–they’re probably thoroughly sick of her and her antics. If she harasses strangers like Kooki imagine what she does to relatives-I bet there isn’t a family event she hasn’t disrupted just by showing up drunk and crazy.

[asb_own_me]

Costco has an entire surveillance system for around $1100. Several motion activated cameras and CC feed to a monitor in the house.

Kooki - Wow. I’ve been following this thread, thinking how lucky I am that my one set of neighbors are just total morons, and not actually belligerent, drunk or dangerous. I agree with the others who said that the drunk mom and/or hateful spawn may well be ready and more than willing to escalate this situation. I think you would be wise to carry a tape recorder or video camera with you at all times. Is there some way you can get a message to PC Owen? I would hate to bother him while he’s recuperating, but if his cohort won’t take you seriously…better you inconvenience him to make a phone call to his coworker than you find your property vandalized or yourself injured in a confrontation.

I hate to ask this since a few folks got upset about this line of thought earlier, and I apologize if this has already been answered, but what are the gun laws like in the UK? Can you carry? I ask for the unlikely but totally possible scenario of the mother accosting you. Even if you only use it to bonk her over the head. Carry nasty stinging pepper spray. Have large and imposing friends spend the weekend.

[Bluey]

For what I remember, in England only criminals have guns.
Even most of the police don’t.
That is one more reason people left to come here.

[equinelaw]

. . . . but if you hit her eyes with pepper spray imagine how many times she’ll stumble into the electric fence:winkgrin:

[Milocalwinnings]

[QUOTE=equinelaw;3398699]
. . . . but if you hit her eyes with pepper spray imagine how many times she’ll stumble into the electric fence:winkgrin:[/QUOTE]

Oh may not be a bad idea!!! Have the hose handy so you can soak her at the same time.

[harvestmoon]

[QUOTE=equinelaw;3398699]
. . . . but if you hit her eyes with pepper spray imagine how many times she’ll stumble into the electric fence:winkgrin:[/QUOTE]

I don’t even think it’s legal to carry pepper spray in the UK, but I could be wrong.

[equinelaw]

No guns or pepper spray:) How do they settle disputes:confused: Can just anybody carry around those nice big clubs for whacking people?

Its not like KC has to prove who did what, she just needs to stop it from happening at all:yes:

[cloudyandcallie]

Food

[QUOTE=equinelaw;3398733]
No guns or pepper spray:) How do they settle disputes:confused: Can just anybody carry around those nice big clubs for whacking people?

Its not like KC has to prove who did what, she just needs to stop it from happening at all:yes:[/QUOTE]

How do they settle disputes or punish people? They make them eat English food:D
Or amp up the electric charge in their fences.
Or increase the water pressure in their hoses.

[sketcher]

[QUOTE=birdsong;3398410]
OMG I have just returned from being sidetracked by the Steffen Peter thread with him popping a willy (or something like that)…
I’M BECOMING!!

.[/QUOTE]

Me too! After Stiffen Peters I followed up with the smegma cooler thread (maybe mentioned on the crayon trainer thread, I can’t keep the two apart…)which I’ve spent the past two days wading through. How on earth did I miss that the first time around!