Culture
Forgive me if this has been stated – I got through page 14 of 42 and had too many thoughts to keep going. ? My overall reaction to this is no longer anger – but sadness.
We all wanted to believe in the fairytale…the wealthy provider sponsoring a young talent that did not have the financial means so that the said talent could fully realize her potential and see her dreams come true. My heart is most broken by what appears to be a truly dysfunctional situation in what should be a child’s most enjoyable years – certainly not a fairytale. I can’t help but wonder if, after seeing TC’s talent, her mother felt she had no other options as her family did not have the thousands upon thousands to fund showing at the highest levels. Perhaps she viewed this as “if we don’t go along, she won’t be able to ride”…while heartbreaking as a mother to have to face that decision – to deny her daughter something that she truly loves – it is a decision that we all face at one point or another for many different reasons.
I’ll save my thoughts on the meds themselves for another post. For now, what my mind can’t get away from is not the flaw in process or the “impossible standard” that is perceived, but rather …what is this horse show culture teaching our children about what’s important in life? Is it another win, another check, another title? Is it “do what everyone does or be rejected?” Is it “you gotta hang with this crowd to be considered talented?” Gutcheck moment for me - I know I’ll be thinking seriously about our family’s involvement with USEF sponsored activities going forward and what life lessons I want to teach my daughter. Ultimately, I hope this gives our entire industry a gutcheck…where did lines start to get blurry and the playing field skewed? And why?