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Yes! And what is more difficult it seems in the horse world, shenanigans are so often more overlooked or “pooh-poohed” because it is politically incorrect to bring to light wrongdoings or be critical of poor business practices of horse people. If you are critical then YOU are the one with the problem (“oh, leave her alone, everyone knows how busy so and so is”, etc) Yet if it were a doctor, lawyer, plumber, mechanic etc and they committed the same bad practices, it would be a different story.[/QUOTE]
Oh, it’s not just the “horse world”!
I would encourage anybody and everybody to view Philip Zimbardo’s TED Talk - “Evil - What Makes People Go Wrong?” Zimbardo was the creator of the “Stanford Prison Experiment”, which is very well known, and they recently made a movie based on it. The most important part of the talk for me comes at 19:00 where he shifts the focus and talks about “heroes”. Here are the links to the video of the talk and to the transcript:
http://www.ted.com/talks/view/lang/en//id/272
http://dotsub.com/view/0e94c9d8-9d94-4685-9c97-36404210ada0/viewTranscript/eng
And, here is the part I think is so important - this is from the transcript, so the grammar is off; or you can hear it on the video starting around 19:00 –
My big disagreement is that I don’t think you only get one chance in a lifetime to be heroic; I think every single day each human being has multiple opportunities to be heroic vs. being a passive bystander.
FYI – Here is a link to Matt Langdon’s “The Hero Construction Company” / Building Heroes in Schools - http://www.theherocc.com/
"So situations have the power to do, through – but the point is, this is the same situation that can inflame the hostile imagination in some of us, that makes us perpetrators of evil, can inspire the heroic imagination in others. It’s the same situation. And you’re on one side or the other. Most people are guilty of the evil of inaction, because your mother said, “Don’t get involved. Mind your own business.” And you have to say, “Mama, humanity is my business.”
So the psychology of heroism is – we’re going to end in a moment – how do we encourage children in new hero courses, that I’m working with Matt Langdon – he has a hero workshop – to develop this heroic imagination, this self-labeling, “I am a hero in waiting,” and teach them skills. To be a hero, you have to learn to be a deviant, because you’re always going against the conformity of the group. Heroes are ordinary people whose social actions are extraordinary. Who act.
The key to heroism is two things. A: you’ve got to act when other people are passive. B: you have to act socio-centrically, not egocentrically. And I want to end with the story that some of you know, about Wesley Autrey, New York subway hero. Fifty-year-old African-American construction worker. He’s standing on a subway in New York. A white guy falls on the tracks. The subway train is coming. There’s 75 people there. You know what? They freeze. He’s got a reason not to get involved. He’s black, the guy’s white, and he’s got two little kids. Instead, he gives his kids to a stranger, jumps on the tracks, puts the guy between the tracks, lies on him, the subway goes over him. Wesley and the guy – 20 and a half inches height. The train clearance is 21 inches. A half an inch would have taken his head off. And he said, “I did what anyone could do,” no big deal to jump on the tracks.
And the moral imperative is “I did what everyone should do.” And so one day, you will be in a new situation. Take path one, you’re going to be a perpetrator of evil. Evil, meaning you’re going to be Arthur Andersen. You’re going to cheat, or you’re going to allow bullying. Path two, you become guilty of the evil of passive inaction. Path three, you become a hero. The point is, are we ready to take the path to celebrating ordinary heroes, waiting for the right situation to come along to put heroic imagination into action? Because it may only happen once in your life, and when you pass it by, you’ll always know, I could have been a hero and I let it pass me by. So the point is thinking it and then doing it.