Y’know what, my barn where I rode growing up had flaws.
But I never thought a thing about the fact that one of the other lesson kids there was the half-Black popular sports boy from my school. He was approx. 3 years older than me, he was a senior my freshman year of HS, think he ended up in the Navy after graduation, cool dude.
Still remember the time I fell off learning to canter when I was maybe in 7th grade. He missed most of the chaos but came out of the barn just in time to see me getting up and getting back on the horse. My mom was watching from the arena fence, he went over to her, asked what just happened, she told him, he said, on realizing I was getting right back up and back on, he told my mom “she’s a better cowboy than I am!” He played football and I think also basketball, IIRC.