I find it odd that anyone would declare themselves a jumper but have apparently never seen a hunter before? I mean, these two things exist in the same world so you should have a general idea of what’s out there, right?
Not necessarily to the OP but for anyone who pulls this thread up for reference in the future, my take home advice would be this:
When I first started re-riding I didn’t buy anything (except saddle pads) that wasn’t conservative and traditional enough to use for schooling, showing, clinics, lessons, etc. I had a green horse that I didn’t know what he wanted to do with his life and I didn’t have a lot of extra money so when I bought a jacket, I bought navy blue, when I bought breeches, they were always tan, etc. That way I could do a clinic, take a jumping lesson, ride in a dressage show, and always fit in, or at least show a traditional picture to the judge without having to purchase anything.
The good news is that this kind of ‘boring’ tack and apparel is easy to find used and only very slowly goes out of style.
Now that I have more ‘horse budget’ (or more money allocated to it anyway, lol), I do buy stuff specifically for schooling, or for specific things I want to do (like an elastic breast collar for schooling cross country or white breeches for dressage tests). But even then, I am really cautious about buying something I rrreeeallllyyy want if it’s highly fashionable and not very practical (like that darn Horseware Berry jacket!!)
I am a 34 year old woman who rides a 13.3h POA, the least I can do when I show up to a class is have the right tack and apparel on It was much easier to blend in on my bay thoroughbred! A dressage clinician made kind of a confused compliment about having the right tack on my horse… I think a bit confused I showed up on a little spotted pony wearing a Custom dressage saddle It’s much better to be “well the adult on the pony appears to at least kind of know what’s expected here” than “what is SHE wearing?!”