In that case, your turn.
If you are going to demand videos to determine whether or not people are worth talking to, feel free to put out yourself.
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But after watching your videos, yeah, you have too long of a rein most of the time and push down on your horses neck a bit over the jump. Your are not laying on his neck as the question was asked. This is NOT creating bascule and neither does laying on their neck. This is like when you are flatting and you use your leg into your hand. You are balancing your horse in a different way. Both those horses do not jump any better by pressing your hands into his neck. They still jump average.[/QUOTE]
What I notice is that in the second video on the chestnut, where I am not focusing on pressing the crest or lowering his neck, I tend to come back to the cantle a little early on the descent. Rather than letting the horse finish his jump, I am catching him just a skitch early. Since I don’t have this problem so much in the grey horse video, perhaps if I keep in mind to “press the crest” in the future, it may help me to give my horse room to finish his jump better.
In the lesson on the grey horse I was instructed to “press on his neck.” Not “throw myself onto” his neck, but to “press on” it.
Whether this is effective directly by helping the horse understand from the pressure physically on his neck, or indirectly by causing me to ride the back half of the arc better and leave him more room, is up for grabs, …but regardless I would like in future rides to fix that mistake I see in the second video of opening up a bit too early. So I will try to remind myself to “press on the neck” more -since when I "press on the neck’ more, I don’t seem to open up too early. I see a better ride when I am carrying that thought around the course with me.