Exactly…
Thank you for putting into words what I have not been able to put my finger on about this accident. Lainey suffered horrible injuries, and I also wish her the best in her recovery. But, I am also troubled by what seems to be missing - humility, introspection and perhaps some acceptance of responsibility for what happened to her and her ‘best friend’ Frodo, who by all accounts was a super horse. I have lost horses I love, and they were the worst losses of my life. Had I ever felt even partially responsible for their deaths for any reason I would probably be crippled with guilt and would likely wait a long, long time before I attempted to ride again. I don’t think I would be proclaiming to the world that I would be back and would prove everyone wrong about me and my riding - There’s something sadly egocentric about that.
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It is wonderful news that Laine is recovering well. I join with all other well-wishers in hoping for a speedy and complete recovery.
I may be in the minority but I find her post and aspects of her Mother’s earlier posts troubling. The picture I am getting is of an indulged, over-praised, headstrong young woman who has never been told no.
I have no sense that the death of two horses has chastened her or prompted any of the introspection or learning that Karen O’Connor, Buck Davidson, and others, are quoted as sharing in the other thread on eventing injuries. For Laine to dismiss the comments raising concerns about her judgment and brashness and to vow to come back riding harder and faster is frightening to me and I am surprised, frankly, that others are not concerned also.[/QUOTE]