Actually, I contacted her through PM and apologized. I am also the Mom to an adult addict and I know what it feels like and because of that, I was shamed by my post. So I reached out, explained what we had in common, and apologized. She replied with what I would describe as a heartfelt acknowledgement.
As for my name being outed. I sign each post I make here with my actual first name and the state I live in is right there in my user name. I have only been stalked once and I think he died because he stopped posting.
I sign my posts with my name because I am willing to own them. Others do the same thing and others don’t. I have been the subject of private missives from LK, but I take them all at face value.
No worries from me.
Sheilah