Saw this thread earlier. Wondered why it had exploded. Now I know why. Same old same old. Yaāll just need to learn how to IGNORE.
Ps. Edited to add the squirrel drawing is lovely. And so aproposā¦ squirrel!!!
As I said earlier, your passionate advocacy for LK and her quest for vindication seems so very at odds with your claims to have no connection to the K-Klan. It is becoming increasingly hard to believe that you donāt have some skin in the game.
Get a grip. Talking about someone is not āintimidation, harassment, or abuse.ā
And in case it needs to be said again, talking about someoneās own actual words and actions is not ātrash talking.ā
None of MBās āsupportersā have written manifestos about destroying her, nor are they skulking around her property at night dressed all in black. None of them have filed false reports with police or other local agencies, nor have they posted threats against her on social media. Nobody is accosting her at the supermarket, or lying in wait at the entrance to the barn. Nobody has prevented her in anyway from simply getting on with her life, period. No intimidation. No harassment. No abuse.
1). I donāt think MB or his attorney or his inner circle (LO) has any obligation to say anything about any of the social media discussion related to this case. Do you disagree?
2). I think there are many reasons desirable programs will choose NOT to take on a particular client who is in the midst of a highly public legal drama, of both a criminal and civil variety. I donāt think āblackballingā is really much of a factor, nor is social media chatter.
Most programs will look at a situation like this, and just say āOh. Youāre embroiled in litigation 6 ways to Sunday related to a major incident, and sued everyone involved in the incident, including the farm and underlying lllc, and a fellow clientā¦ all before it even went to a criminal trial? Gosh. That sounds really serious. Good luck with all that. And by the way - sorry - but we just donāt have an opening for any new clients at our facility right now.ā
3). I think provisions prohibiting āintimidation, harassment and abuseā of witnesses and crime victims during public legal proceedings TYPICALLY are there for the protection of people being threatened by gangs, organized crime, or who are sexual assault victims. Thatās my general sense of what these provisions relate to, and the sort of āintimidation, harassment and abuseā of witnesses and victims that prosecutors will prioritize cracking down on.
I donāt think mean posts on social media, though probably unpleasant, are in the same category as other types of threats of violent crime at the hands of fellow gang members, etc. Perhaps mean posts on social media could be construed as a violation of a crime victim or witnesses civil rights though. Probably action would need to be taken via civil litigation though, and a defamation lawsuit. There is a very high threshold when it comes to success in such lawsuitsā¦
Just for the record, the way this post appears, it looks like I am the one who is being quoted. Butā¦ itās actually a comment that @CurrentlyHorseless made, and bigmama1 is responding to that.
There seems to be an insinuation that MB is in contact with his inner circle of family/very close friends/loved ones, and then these folks are in touch with other folks in the broader dressage communityā¦ and that is why there is persistent negative commentary on social media about certain parties involved in this case.
It seems they are insinuating that this is all a deliberate strategy to intimidate and harass a victim/witness.
Itās a big dressage oriented collusion/conspiracyā¦ all focused on one particular adult amateur, who has been INCREDIBLY vocal herself on social media over the last 3 years.
This seems to be the line of thinking/argument.
They seem to be discounting the POSSIBILITY that lots of people took notice of LKs own activities on social mediaā¦ and developed a negative impression of herā¦ and began discussing some of her more colorful and controversial public posts.
MBās admittance to AK was delayed due to lack of space. I suspect this has also led to delays in evaluations, plus Covid resetting the clock for so MANY things and now vacation season.
It sucks.
He is probably a better artist than we realize because his equipment is very limited by the facility for the safety of ALL the patients and staff.
His rendition of the common gray fuzzy-tailed tree rat is very good indeed. I would love to see him draw a red squirrel or a flying squirrel. Bats are also cool, IMO. They can use more support.
I hope his CLOSED hearing goes well and he can be released in short order.
ETA:
Lara is a lovely rider and should be rightfully very proud of what she and her mare have achieved. She does it while running a business and so much more too.
So, Iām not going to retrace and link the path I went down on this, but youāre right. That language has specific intent. You have to go back through the comments from the NJ AG and some specific case law, etcā¦to get to the intent, but I had time to kill, so I did.
When the Victimās Bill of Rights was introduced in NJ, that language was meant to create a space where victimās of crimes were safe in reporting any harassment or intimidation against them. Specifically, that harassment, intimidation, etc. is supposed to be directly related to their participation in prosecuting the defendant, and has the intent to get the victim to recant, withdraw from cooperating, or otherwise hinder the prosecution.
It also is related specifically back to this statute:
The prosecution of the criminal case is over. I donāt think (and I havenāt read all the YT comments) that anyone is or ever was trying to prevent LK from cooperating with the prosecution.
I suppose someone somewhere could make a case that anonymous posters on social media, responding to someoneās very public behavior, meets that criteria, but that is just not relevant to a hearing about MBās current mental health.
And, generally, not directed at you VirginiaHorseMom, again, this hearing is not an opportunity to retry the concluded criminal case. That is expressly prohibited. Itās also not an opportunity to preview the civil suit. Itās sole purpose is to determine the current state of MBās mental health and what his future plans should be.
Iām probably muddling this and confusing it with something else, butā¦
So, it was my understanding that a claim of harassment or whatnot, where the contact one has with these people is via a forum (chatroom, etc) you choose to participate in and can as easily leave/ignoreā¦ Means legally you donāt have a leg to stand on because you can simply leave the conversation or ignore themā¦
If youāre referring to what Iāve posted, I havenāt insinuated anything.
Hereās what Iāve flat out said. MB is in contact with his lawyers and close personal friends such as LO. I think I specifically said that I was not asserting that he was actively using that channel to orchestrate or request the bashing of LK on SM.
Iām pointing out that a lot of harassment and abuse of LK has occurred over the last three years, and it appears that he has not attempted to convey to his āsupportersā via LO or anyone else that it is his desire that LK be permitted to get on with her life.
Iām also pointing out the possibility that tearing down LK on SM may not be the best way to be supportive of MB.