This.
That you enable this kind of entitled attitude to the point that you abdicate your duties to your living, breathing animals, is not admirable at all.
Previously you said you allow your clients to bully you into not growing your business properly by getting a scheduling system established b/c they will only deal directly with you via phone/text/whatever. You cannot even employ an assistant b/c your clients would refuse to deal with such a person. And you kowtow to all of this.
Now we learn you indulge people who act like braiding by you and you alone is a ‘life and death’ issue. And that you indulge and enable this behaviour to the point of being so out of touch with the care of your own animals that…well, we’ve all seen what happened/happens.
That’s not good business, it’s not good character, and it’s not admirable in any way, shape, or form. It shows someone who is bad at animal husbandry and bad at business.
‘My clients are so out of touch and self-involved they think of braiding as life and death and I enable and indulge that delulu at the extreme expense of living creatures in my care up to and including the death of more than one of them’ is not the flex you seem to think it is.