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You’ve described this type of scenario in different contexts, and to me, this is the synopsis of this horse as you’ve described him.
You have gotten many suggestions of things to check on physically, and you’ve already done a fair amount.
Physical: Given what you’ve done to date and all the possible causes suggested in this thread, I would be looking at taking this horse to the most sophisticated veterinary specialist facility you can find - regardless of location - one with all the equipment and multiple veterinarians who have different discipline specialties and are well-recognized in their field - and tell them cost is no object. Leave him there as long as they want him (you can visit multiple times a day). Let them turn him inside out to find a physical cause of pain, and perhaps of behavior. (Such as ESMS west of Fort Worth, Texas.)
Mental/Training: From what you say I suspect the cause is physical. I wouldn’t bother with training or training explanations at all - it’s unfair and unproductive if the problem is inside the horse’s body.
I have had to realize that it is as possible for a horse to be unsound mentally - for biological reasons - just as it is for a horse to be physically unsound because of a chronic physical condition. Not just the brain, but the balance of hormones (adrenaline etc) and everything else in the body of a living creature can have profound effects on behavior.
Whether or not a biologically-caused mental unsoundness can be fixed is another story. Scientifically we don’t know nearly as much about the mental side as we do the physical, and that’s true in people as well. But the vets could tell you about what they find - hopefully. This is a similar situation to whether a laminitis or other condition can be cured and/or maintained, effect on the horse, etc.
That line of logic would be the basis of my thinking and decisions, were I in your shoes.
If a full inside-out veterinary workup is not financially possible, I would simply proceed with the assumption that the horse has a biologically-caused mental unsoundness, and decide what to do from there, with love and great concern for both the horse’s welfare, and that of those who handle him.
I would make some kind of plan and provision for him in the event I became physically unable to make decisions for him myself (or even died). His future without you isn’t going to be good - or quick.
Good luck with this horse. I am glad he had the great good fortune to have come to such a caring, sensitive and open-minded owner. He needed you - and always will. :yes: ((( many big hugs )))[/QUOTE]
Thank you, your interpretation of the Physical and Mental aspects are exactly how I feel about this.
From everything I’ve been given for advice:
*More turnout - he isn’t able to stay out 24/7 at the moment, but it is what I plan to offer him in the near future
*Find him a friend - I agree with someone else that he may not have good heard instincts, at this time I don’t have anyone to pair him with but will always keep it in mind in case the right one comes along.
*Have the vet re-test for Lyme, evaluate vision & hearing, discuss possible brain tumors, get a quote for MRI and/or bone scan
*Try him on Glabapentin - to relieve pain
*Locate a trainer to start working with him on the ground
I am in no way saying that my methods of handling him are not going to change, so I’m sorry if anyone gets frustrated at that. I’m not trying to be rude, I’m taking everything into consideration.
Before any ground work could be productive he needs to be comfortable and less aware of physical issues. So once he’s given a chance to be pain free it will make working with him a lot easier.