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OP, do you have a trainer? What are his/her credentials? Does he/she have clients in the jumper ring successfully competing in the division(s) you aspire to?
If not, this is the first thing I would change. Trainer/rider/horse match is so overlooked when people on COTH start going off about no stirrups riding and dressage lessons.
I would say that your videos captured trips that are overall not very successful. Did you feel like they were successful? Maybe there is more context - it was your first show, you get terrible show nerves, etc. But from the tiny bit of information that I have it looks like your trainer is not setting you up to be successful doing what you want to do.
There is nothing inherently wrong with you or your horse. I’m guessing you just need a trainer who is going to polish you both up.[/QUOTE]
yup I have a trainer, she is very qualified. I show with another adult who does the high adults. I do feel the trips were successful, this is our second show and we went with no equicalm (he had it last time). We both get show nerves, but not bad. We did the same level at our first show and cleaned up, won all classes, and we are both comfortable and schooling higher, with out most of the problems in that video. I guess I got nervous and forgot most of my training