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7 more weeks to go for me.

Anyone planning on doing cloth diapering? I’ve been on What to Expect forums a bit lately and reading about it and it seems like such trouble, especially when you are out and about or on vacation. I don’t think I want to keep a pooped up diaper in my bag while I walk around the mall or zoo.

I never minded cleaning horse poop but having to scrape poop out of the cloth diaper, then rinse it out and do wash constantly seems like more trouble than its worth. My eco-friends are all about it. Maybe I have the wrong idea??[/QUOTE]

I’m not, but I have a friend who did and she kept regular disposable diapers on hand for that type of thing. Around the house he was in cloth, but if he was going somewhere or being baby sat, they had disposables as an option. She indicated that it was easier than it seems, but her husband stays home with their son so they have a bit more flexibility than most.

Our baby boy is due January 12th! The last tri-mester - hard to believe. We are going to an all-day childbirth class tomorrow. My “Plan A” is natural childbirth, but I will deliver in the hospital. I know I can’t control for everything though. Nursery is pretty much ready, maternity photo session is on Sunday, and first baby shower is next weekend! It is getting exciting!

[QUOTE=pk1027;8359411]
Anyone planning on doing cloth diapering? I’ve been on What to Expect forums a bit lately and reading about it and it seems like such trouble, especially when you are out and about or on vacation. I don’t think I want to keep a pooped up diaper in my bag while I walk around the mall or zoo.

I never minded cleaning horse poop but having to scrape poop out of the cloth diaper, then rinse it out and do wash constantly seems like more trouble than its worth. My eco-friends are all about it. Maybe I have the wrong idea??[/QUOTE]

I’m on month six of cloth diapering, and am really, really happy with it! We’re using Applecheeks, which are fabulous, and my little girl’s bum looks wonderful. She was a month early, so spent some time in disposables while she was still too small for the Applecheeks. While in disposables (even the “good” brands!), we were constantly trying to keep ahead of diaper rash, likely due to her sensitive prem skin. We made the switch to washables once she was big enough, and haven’t even looked at the diaper rash cream since. (For what it’s worth, I also don’t use prepackaged wipes, but instead just use a wet face cloth to clean her up. Since I’ve already got the baby laundry going, it’s easy to just add the face cloths to the wash too. We used a prepackaged wipe exactly once when we first brought her home - the hospital used cloths - and she screamed her little head off until we washed her bottom!)

Washing is not a big deal at all, especially before they start solids. Honestly, there is no scraping or prerinsing at all while they still have milk poos. Once you’re into more solid food, things do change, and you’ll want to go to either a disposable liner on top of the washables (it allows you to just pick up the solids and dispose of them easily), or you’ll need to give the washable liner a quick swish over the toilet to get the solids off. I do a load of baby laundry every two or three days, and really don’t feel that the diapers are an extra burden. I’d be washing all her things separately anyways with a gentle detergent, so this just means I don’t wait as long to make up a load for her.

As for packing the dirty diapers, you can get excellent purse-sized impermeable diaper bags for the dirty stuff, or just use a disposable when heading out. I keep a stash of disposables for when someone might be looking after baby cakes that isn’t comfortable with her washable diapers (I don’t want her left in a soggy diaper because someone’s scared of putting together a new one!), and for longer days out when I don’t want to lug the dirty ones home.

All in all, I am so pleased with our decision to cloth diaper, as is my husband. I would never push it on someone who wasn’t interested, and absolutely wouldn’t ever suggest it to someone that didn’t have their own washer and dryer, but I can’t imagine going the exclusively disposable route, or trying to keep my baby’s bum quite as happy in disposables.

If you’ve got specific questions, please ask. :slight_smile: I don’t have any experience with brands besides Applecheeks, but do think it’s important to stay with the brands that use natural fibres. I’ve seen a few babies in synthetic fibres, and they seem perpetually stinky, plus less absorbent.

As an added bonus, you can also recoup expenses by selling the covers once you’re finished with them, provided you take care of them.

So, hubby and I were supposed to be in an 8-hour birthing class at the hospital today…
But we bailed and went to breakfast instead, lol.
I’ve done so much reading and prepping that I was worried that I wouldn’t learn anything, and they would scare me with videos and talk of all of the things that could go wrong.
I feel bad, but after reading lots of stuff online where people thought the classes were a waste of time, I’m glad to have my Saturday back. I do plan on going to a breastfeeding and infant CPR class, though.
I’m already a slacker mother!! Hahah

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So, hubby and I were supposed to be in an 8-hour birthing class at the hospital today…
But we bailed and went to breakfast instead, lol.
I’ve done so much reading and prepping that I was worried that I wouldn’t learn anything, and they would scare me with videos and talk of all of the things that could go wrong.
I feel bad, but after reading lots of stuff online where people thought the classes were a waste of time, I’m glad to have my Saturday back. I do plan on going to a breastfeeding and infant CPR class, though.
I’m already a slacker mother!! Hahah[/QUOTE]

I too am wondering if the 8 hour birthing class is worth going… I don’t want to waste a full Saturday, which I feel like is super selfish of me and I am already being a bad mommy too… wish they had a crash course class that was like an hour.

I did a birthing class before my son was born - I think it was 3 or 4 hours. It was interesting but ultimately did absolutely nothing to help me with labor or delivery. In hindsight I wish I hadn’t bothered to spend the money/time.

My midwife told me that birthing classes are great for couples who:

  1. are ultra nervous and requiring a lot of reassurance from many sources
  2. Don’t read much.

My husband and I were happy with our one book on labour/delivery and our one manual on basic baby care. Our midwife was very supportive though and we had a lot of consultation time before and immediately after birth.

There are some decent online birthing classes as well, at least here in Ontario. Might be worth asking your OB about? I did the online version as I felt like I should do something but was not interested in sitting in a class (the classes offered locally are an hour or two an evening for a few weeks). I’m an RN, although not in Mat/Child, and read all the literature I could get my hands on through a couple excellent sources at work. My husband and I definitely got more from that than the online program, but it did provide some “conversation starters” both between ourselves and with our OB in a few instances.

We didn’t do any of the classes, just read a lot and showed a lot of questions. Course it also helped that my brother and his wife had a kid 3 months before we did :slight_smile: great practice! But really between reading and asking questions we felt pretty comfortable with labor (not that labor went as planned lol but still) and taking our baby home. Breastfeeding was a whole other story though… Breastfeeding is hard. It’s totally worth the effort but holy crap has this first two weeks been hard. Fully recommend taking advantage of any LCs at the hospital or obs office, they’ve been saviors!

[QUOTE=Small Change;8362069]
I’m on month six of cloth diapering, and am really, really happy with it! We’re using Applecheeks, which are fabulous, and my little girl’s bum looks wonderful. She was a month early, so spent some time in disposables while she was still too small for the Applecheeks. While in disposables (even the “good” brands!), we were constantly trying to keep ahead of diaper rash, likely due to her sensitive prem skin. We made the switch to washables once she was big enough, and haven’t even looked at the diaper rash cream since. (For what it’s worth, I also don’t use prepackaged wipes, but instead just use a wet face cloth to clean her up. Since I’ve already got the baby laundry going, it’s easy to just add the face cloths to the wash too. We used a prepackaged wipe exactly once when we first brought her home - the hospital used cloths - and she screamed her little head off until we washed her bottom!)

Washing is not a big deal at all, especially before they start solids. Honestly, there is no scraping or prerinsing at all while they still have milk poos. Once you’re into more solid food, things do change, and you’ll want to go to either a disposable liner on top of the washables (it allows you to just pick up the solids and dispose of them easily), or you’ll need to give the washable liner a quick swish over the toilet to get the solids off. I do a load of baby laundry every two or three days, and really don’t feel that the diapers are an extra burden. I’d be washing all her things separately anyways with a gentle detergent, so this just means I don’t wait as long to make up a load for her.

As for packing the dirty diapers, you can get excellent purse-sized impermeable diaper bags for the dirty stuff, or just use a disposable when heading out. I keep a stash of disposables for when someone might be looking after baby cakes that isn’t comfortable with her washable diapers (I don’t want her left in a soggy diaper because someone’s scared of putting together a new one!), and for longer days out when I don’t want to lug the dirty ones home.

All in all, I am so pleased with our decision to cloth diaper, as is my husband. I would never push it on someone who wasn’t interested, and absolutely wouldn’t ever suggest it to someone that didn’t have their own washer and dryer, but I can’t imagine going the exclusively disposable route, or trying to keep my baby’s bum quite as happy in disposables.

If you’ve got specific questions, please ask. :slight_smile: I don’t have any experience with brands besides Applecheeks, but do think it’s important to stay with the brands that use natural fibres. I’ve seen a few babies in synthetic fibres, and they seem perpetually stinky, plus less absorbent.

As an added bonus, you can also recoup expenses by selling the covers once you’re finished with them, provided you take care of them.[/QUOTE]

I agree. Cloth diapering is not that gross with a breastfed baby and Small Change has great incite!

I use formula and have a kid who does not scream when wiped with cold prepackaged wipes nor has ever had a rash with disposable diapers and am also happy with that choice. One thing to consider with cloth if you are not in Canada and/or cannot stay home for the first year is childcare. Some places/people will not do cloth.

Eeesh, I hope I didn’t come off as high’n’mighty about the no wipes thing. :frowning: It just works best for our little girl, plus keeps the costs down a bit more as well (especially since we’re already doing baby bum laundry!).

I think babies are like horses - as long as you’re doing things kindly and with the best interests of the horse or child at heart, there’s about 76 different ways to do things “right.” What is best depends on your individual situation and priorities. :slight_smile:

As a PS: One added benefit of the Applecheeks diapers that I forgot to mention is that the poo doesn’t seem to migrate up my baby’s back with them like it does with disposables. I’m not sure why (the shape maybe?), but it stays where she puts it. The major blow outs we’ve had in disposables have all tried to migrate up her back to her ears…

Love this thread! I am due May 2nd with our 2nd, and still riding 2-3 times a week. Hunting season has killed our trail riding, so we are in the ring coming up with the best “keep our minds active” exercises we can come up with.

You absolutely did not come off that way! I know another babe who has to have a wipe warmer or the cold disposable wipes will make him scream. Mine really couldn’t care less which is all I was trying to say :slight_smile: Props to you for going the cloth route, I’d for sure do a face cloth as a wipe too. I just couldn’t imagine cloth with mine (formula fed & on solids, ugh the poopy morning diaper :S )

I think the best part of having babies in our era is all of the options! I think it’s great you use applecheeks and it’s working. I’m currently using huggies little movers and they are working. My friend uses Pampers and they are working. Lastly, a girl from my barn is using a hemp clothe diaper (she said synthetic/microfiber are awful too) and they are working for her. How great is it that we get to use what works best for our babes instead of a catch-all system like before?!

My kid also got used to the cold wipes (the Costco ones have no scent and seem quite mild) and we found a good fit with Pampers brand disposables. We tried Huggies, because Costco conveniently sells those too, and no way! I was really surprised at how much difference in fit there is between brands.

When people asked me about cloth diapering before I had DS, I always said that it might be an option if he turned out to have mega sensitive skin or something. Luckily, he had a tough little butt, because shortly after he was born, our Well completely died and we were on a VERY small cistern for water for about 4 months. Having to do diaper laundry would have probably doubled my water delivery frequency!

I think a lot of the cloth diapers are really cute, and a ton of my friends use them, but I’m happy with disposables. Hopefully baby #2 arrives with a tough butt too :wink:

I think it was something in the wipes themselves that made her scream, as she’s great with a face cloth even when it’s pretty chilly (dark o’clock diaper changes mean less patience with the tap water warming up sometimes…). The time that I upset her with the wipes, I wiped her, put her diaper back on, and then she started yelling at me. She didn’t stop until I actually washed her little bum! I haven’t tried disposable wipes again yet, although I’m assuming she’s a bit less sensitive now than she was as a freshly hatched premie. :wink:

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My kid also got used to the cold wipes (the Costco ones have no scent and seem quite mild) and we found a good fit with Pampers brand disposables. We tried Huggies, because Costco conveniently sells those too, and no way! I was really surprised at how much difference in fit there is between brands.

When people asked me about cloth diapering before I had DS, I always said that it might be an option if he turned out to have mega sensitive skin or something. Luckily, he had a tough little butt, because shortly after he was born, our Well completely died and we were on a VERY small cistern for water for about 4 months. Having to do diaper laundry would have probably doubled my water delivery frequency!

I think a lot of the cloth diapers are really cute, and a ton of my friends use them, but I’m happy with disposables. Hopefully baby #2 arrives with a tough butt too ;)[/QUOTE]

Love the Kirkland wipes! They are the best. Isn’t it funny about diaper fit? Pampers doesn’t fit my kid at all. She’s super tall and lean 27" and 14lbs.

Small Change what wipes did you use? There was a recall on huggies wipes a while back for glass in them! I hope this wasn’t the issue with your little one :frowning: major ouch!

These were actually ones that my sister-in-law swears by, from The Honest Company. They’re supposed to be all natural, soothing, etc, but something in there upset babycakes. I don’t know if something was tingly maybe, even if it didn’t actually “hurt,” and that was enough to set her off?

Babies have all kinds of sensitivities…for a while I had to go off dairy, while BFing. It was definitely irritating my LOs gut. I slowly reintroduced it around six months, he was 100% fine. He lives off yogurt now. If for some reason you want baby wipes they might be worth testing out again, but if you like the face cloths, no need to change!

The Huggies with glass in them thing was a hoax, just FYI.

we use cloth diapers (Sunbaby) and disposable wipes. Ww go through SO many wipes I cannot imagine laundering that them. The diapers are hard enough to keep up with!

I also use a ridiculous number of wipes. For everything. Face cleaning, hand cleaning, soother cleaning, surface cleaning. As soon as the Kirkland packs are half empty, they go into the diaper bag (save on the weight and space, the new packs are BIG.)

I have just hit the point of “I want it over now…” whininess. 7-8 weeks to go. This coincides with the point where I become unable to tell if I am hungry or full.