Horseless Rider in Virginia - 20120 zip code
Horseless rider, 46, non-smoking, fit, and sane, not a criminal. Lease ended about two months ago and I miss riding. Looking to ride 2 or 3 times a week. Stay home Mom on one income, so can’t afford ownership or a full lease at the moment. Basically either looking for a horse that needs saddle time, and/or barter my riding skills (or even admin skills if anyone needs help around the barn office) for riding a horse that needs more work. Or, a half lease. (I missed out on being a working student during my younger single years; I’d love to find someone who needs a hand around the barn - a working student who is a learning sponge, free to work on weekdays, while the kids are in school, and doesn’t mind that I’m over 40!)
Not competing recognized (goal is to do mostly schooling shows, or clinics). I want to event, but realistically, that is down the road. Happy to just come out and ride, but I ride with a plan and purpose. Riding since I was 12; started H/J, introduced to Dressage when I lived overseas; enjoy trails and getting out of the ring. Never competed recognized, but did schooling shows and rode on my college riding team.
Would consider bartering a sensible arrangement of barn work for lessons, or a lease/saddle time (done that in the past). As for a work/barter arrangement, with the kids’ schedule can’t do an arrangement with regularly scheduled daily early morning or evening turn out, feed, or muck 24/7 or on weekends. Generally have about a 4 hour window of time to work and ride. Not afraid to get dirty, tidy up around the barn, clean tack, or do some gardening or landscaping around the property, etc. (Even had an arrangement once where I prepared meals for my barn manager who hated to cook. Three dinners a week for her and her husband = free lessons and saddle time.) Been in situations in the past where I worked very hard to earn my rides, and ended up doing more work more than riding, so “reasonable and fair” are the key words, here. Trying to find a balance of work that won’t bites into my limited window of time to ride. (Though I’m lucky, my kids are old enough now to be left on their own, and are low maintenance and responsible, so it makes it much easier than when they were younger.)
Not looking for anything hot and crazy, just want to work on the flat, get more saddle time under my belt, maybe pop around nothing bigger than a 2’6" course, for now. If you should come across anything, or hear of anything, would you keep me in mind, or let me know? I live in Centreville, VA (20120 zip) and would prefer to find a ride no further out than 15 miles/30 minutes from home. Thanks for considering, please PM me with any questions. ~MGB