[QUOTE=Pocket Pony;7253294]
Don’t blame the student. While, yes, there are people who don’t try, there are just as many instructors who aren’t good at instructing, or put “performance” above partnership, who talk about putting a horse in a frame so he can look the part without understanding biomechanically what is going on with the horse.
BB is one person. I like his teaching style, it works for me. He emphasizes things that have helped me tremendously. He’s addressed things that no other instructor has ever done for me with regard to feel, timing, balance. If there were just one dressage person from whom I could take a lesson and who would teach me the same things and give me time to soak and learn it, I would. The reason I like BB is that I like to figure things out on my own. So he’ll give instructions, then you go out and do it. If you have trouble, you ask. But the way for me to figure out what’s right is for the horse to give me the answer, not the instructor who, yes, may be barking out orders that the rider follows like a robot.
I had a huge a-ha moment the other day whereby I was able to recognize the thing that happened before the thing that happened happened, if that makes sense. It was about timing and something I was having trouble with in one direction vs. the other. No other h/j, dressage, or eventing trainer in my 30+ years of riding has ever suggested anything about HOW to develop feel or timing. Yes, they may have said it is important, but other than that, there was no emphasis whatsoever . . . it was like this nebulous thing that I felt was just beyond my grasp. But when I realized that I could get it, and I could feel a difference, and it could affect my horse’s movement, well - I was sold.[/QUOTE]
Such great points PP, and very well said!
I am learning to trace the roots of every problem/challenge I am encountering with training my horses…where is this coming from? It is quite often somewhere I would have never recognized before, somewhere I would have not thought to look.
Putting those cause/effect things together is what I feel is going to fix every issue I run into, no matter what it is. And it’s gone far beyond not putting draw reins on my horse to get her “round” as so many do, or a figure 8 or whatever, to truly getting in her head and to her feet on the ground, and then to her feet on her back. Certainly I’ve heard that over and over, but I still feel like I am only starting to truly “get it”, controlling the feet.
If I could choose only one person in the world to train with, hands down it would be Buck (and as I said, I am not going to make a bridle horse). I don’t have to do that though, so I jump with a trainer here that I love, who knows that I ride with Buck, who is coming to understand the philosophy of it. The other day she took one rein of my mare (while I was mounted) to demonstrate something and when Annie immediately gave she exclaimed “Wow she’s light!”. That makes me happy and it makes my instructor respect what I am doing. My horse feels different than most horses she works with. I know she is curious.
I now only ride with people that I have seen teach or train, that I trust to put the horse first. I will never forgive myself for letting a trainer get on a horse of mine years ago when he refused a jump at his first cross country clinic/outing ever. The trainer never got him over the jump either and he overused the stick on my horse. He told me to bring my horse to his place and he would “teach it to go cross country”. Yeah, I bet. I failed my horse right there and I’ve never forgotten it.
Fillabeana, thanks for the comments on my friend’s situation at the bank. It certainly put me on the spot but it was good for me also. I guess one does feel like you are kind of an ambassador for this way of riding and I wanted to do right by it.
I agree, this is a great thread.