Only when a male of the species thinks that particular feature is solely a reason for authority. I don’t think most real males feel that way and I have rarely known one who felt his only contribution to this world was the penis.
i.e. the reference to subculture. The reference to size fits in the same culture where big boobs are a critria of femininity. It is true I have neither but I do not think that makes me less a person than I would be with plastic boobs.