Woman Shot at Barisone Farm

[eggbutt]

@La-LaPopRider

Seems everyone is so desperate for MB to be a person he is NOT - I’m just the easier scapegoat. Mb was in zero danger.

Lk

No, it sure appears he was fearful and definitely in danger in his 911 calls. I’m not “desperate for MB to be a person he is NOT” but his behavior is out of character, your’s, however, was definitely in character to what others have reportedly seen from you.

Why did you call Child Protective Services? Why call MH’s husband? Why didn’t you just leave?

[HorseAlter1]

Hopefully mentally changed for the better after you seek and obtain help for what are obvious mental issues.

@La-LaPopRider

Thank you. Sincerely. Seems everyone is so desperate for MB to be a person he is NOT - I’m just the easier scapegoat. Mb was in zero danger. He shot me at 2 pm while I was reading on my porch. He shot to kill. He missed. But no one is a winner here. I lost a great trainer despite he was a terribly miserable man & I will be a physically & mentally changed person forever now. No winners. Just a terrible situation.

Lk

[eggbutt]

I have no idea who “RC” is. LK’s boyfriend is “RGG”. Could have been a typo or deliberate mistake. Still a WOW revelation.

[La-LaPopRider]

@HorseAlter1

Quoting for posterity.

if you really are Lauren Kanarek, you most certainly have a criminal record.
Definitely not “squeaky clean” by any means.

And to dispel a few other myths, I know plenty of people who are 22 and didn’t get “jumped at bars” if that is in fact a realistic explanation of why you got in the trouble you did.

Furthermore, the person you quoted doesn’t have to be “fault free” in life in order to comment on anything.

Wait. Just read a sentence I missed. “That’s why you got in the trouble you did?” I got in NO TROUBLE. That is what “dismissal” means. I feel like I’m repeating myself here…

[westisbest]

@smoofox

Perhaps it would be wise to shut this thread down at this point - as it is not helping either “side” in this sad, chaotic mess and may be edging into legal territory that most of us posting on COTH are not involved in.

@Moderator 1

I realize I’m nobody on this forum, rarely post. I agree, there’s nothing to learn now and seems to be kind of senseless taunting.

“Lala” I encourage you to attend to your physical and emotional healing. Your horses need you. Your bf and family need you. Let karma deal with the rest.

[eggbutt]

@westisbest

I realize I’m nobody on this forum, rarely post. I agree, there’s nothing to learn now and seems to be kind of senseless taunting.

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Please DON’T shut this thread down. It appears for the first time more information is coming out that may be beneficial to both sides!

[La-LaPopRider]

@eggbutt

I think there are many prepared to help MB financially for his defense if necessary.

Those “many people,” will demand a refund when they hear what actually happened. Mb has a great lawyer. As he should. He may have shot me trying to murder me, but he’s entitled to the best defense possible. He is gonna need it. Save your money. Mb just got a big fat insurance check. Bc… well, that’s how conmen roll.

[HorseAlter1]

by your own admission, a group of people jumped you at a bar.
As others have stated, plenty of people go to bars and don;t get into trouble.

Your record isn’t “squeaky clean” either. That has been demonstrated multiple times.

Go through your personal history and yes, it’s obvious you’ve got yourself into a lot of trouble. Look at the trouble you are in now!

part of the delusional narcississtic tendencies…

@La-LaPopRider

Wait. Just read a sentence I missed. “That’s why you got in the trouble you did?” I got in NO TROUBLE. That is what “dismissal” means. I feel like I’m repeating myself here…

[eggbutt]

@La-LaPopRider

Those “many people,” will demand a refund when they hear what actually happened. Mb has a great lawyer. As he should. He may have shot me trying to murder me, but he’s entitled to the best defense possible. He is gonna need it. Save your money. Mb just got a big fat insurance check. Bc… well, that’s how conmen roll.

Wow. Such bitterness (rightfully earned in many respects) but you still won’t/can’t explain why you didn’t leave this “conman” but stayed to harass him at all hours of the night. It sounds a bit obsessive.

There was a line in the dialog of the last episode of “Yellowstone” (great series if you need something to watch) where one of the characters says, “but no one ever fought back”. Perhaps that applies in this situation.

[MHM]

@La-LaPopRider

Those “many people,” will demand a refund when they hear what actually happened. Mb has a great lawyer. As he should. He may have shot me trying to murder me, but he’s entitled to the best defense possible. He is gonna need it. Save your money. Mb just got a big fat insurance check. Bc… well, that’s how conmen roll.

QFP

[La-LaPopRider]

@Sparrowette

A Fable:

Once upon a time, there was a wolf and a bear. The bear lived with his ladybear and her cubs, and they lived on berries and whatever they could find, not intruding on others. They lived happily this way for many years.

Then one day, a wolf moved into his cave.

The wolf had a stick. She started poking the bear with the stick, while crying out “I’M SO AFRAID OF THIS BEAR!! THIS BEAR WANTS TO HURT ME!!!”

The bear didn’t like being poked with the stick, so he tried to move away from her. He went to live in another small cave nearby, but where he could still take care of his ladybear and her cubs.

Many times, the bear asked for help from other bears. “Please help me! This wolf keeps poking me with that stick! She won’t stop!!” Other bears said “We’ll go talk to her.” And they did.

But the wolf kept poking with the stick while crying out “I’M SO AFRAID OF THIS BEAR!! THIS BEAR WANTS TO HURT ME!!!”. She kept on poking, poking and poking while crying out, and out and out.

It continued this way for months. And the bear kept asking for help. Other bears still did not help, they just tried to reason with the wolf over and over and over. But she kept on, and on, and on, poking with a stick while crying out “I’M SO AFRAID OF THIS BEAR!! THIS BEAR WANTS TO HURT ME!!!”.

Some of the wolf’s friends told her, “You don’t have to be afraid. Come to live with us here! We will keep you safe!” But the wolf said “No, I’ll stay here.” And kept on poking the bear with a stick while crying out “I’M SO AFRAID OF THIS BEAR!! THIS BEAR WANTS TO HURT ME!!!”

Finally, the wolf started poking her stick at the bear cubs. She poked the cubs that the bear loved. He had told his ladybear that he would help her take care of the cubs and protect them, and here was this wolf, poking them with a stick.

And finally,

the bear thought,

“Yes. I DO want to hurt her.”

Great story. You’ll have to make some serious edits when SafeSport delivers their verdict and the judge and jury hear the mountainous evidence against MB. Otherwise, your fable is fabulous. One question. Which animal refuses to a pay a long overdue bill? Wolf or bear? AFAF

[eggbutt]

@La-LaPopRider

Mb just got a big fat insurance check.

How on earth would you know that unless you are checking his mail??? He’s in jail and MH has safely left the area, so are you caretaking the property now?

[eggbutt]

@La-LaPopRider

Great story. You’ll have to make some serious edits when SafeSport delivers their verdict and the judge and jury hear the mountainous evidence against MB. Otherwise, your fable is fabulous. One question. Which animal refuses to a pay a long overdue bill? Wolf or bear? AFAF

As for SafeSport, there are many who are reporting your past actions to SafeSport now.

Again, IF he owed you money, why not take legal action rather than constant harassment and calling Child Protective Services and issuing a false report?

[Angela_Freda]

@westisbest

I realize I’m nobody on this forum, rarely post. I agree, there’s nothing to learn now and seems to be kind of senseless taunting.

“Lala” I encourage you to attend to your physical and emotional healing. Your horses need you. Your bf and family need you. Let karma deal with the rest.

Let Karma deal with ALL of them.

[smoofox]

@eggbutt

Please DON’T shut this thread down. It appears for the first time more information is coming out that may be beneficial to both sides!

Taunting and provoking from both sides does no one any good. Plus some of you are hiding behind screen names while seeming to know a great deal more about the situation - and thus lack any kind of realistic credibility. This is now an actual legal matter - and not just a thread where posters are speculating, venting, discussing and sharing thoughts/concerns.

[BigMama1]

@Marla 100

None of the above. Just taking the emotion and sympathy and fan crazed horsepeople out of the equation and look at it
with simple facts.

He shot her 3 times. Shot at bf once. It doesn’t matter if she was the most antagonizing person in the world, unless she
endangered his safety at the moment and he was defending himself, no other explanation is necessary. IMO.

See my example of road rage shooters. None of the excuses work. There are clear laws about using guns to shoot others. Remove all the extraneous stuff and it’s a simple case.

I don’t know why it’s such a struggle for people to grasp this. America’s gun loving culture or just willful blindness?

[Joanne]

“Are you Lauren Kanarek?”

@La-LaPopRider

Yes. And I’ve made that very clear. Further, on my profile it says my name. Additionally, if you’re attempting to pretend you had no idea 💡 I was/am ME, just stop. I may HAVE a screen name - but I certainly don’t hide behind it.
None of you know MB. Live there for two years then you comment with validity.

Does anyone see her name in her profile?

[JustTheTicket]

This thread is for sure entertaining me while I wait for an appointment, but yikes. It’s going too far. LK should only be telling this stuff to her legal representation and not a bunch of strangers on the internet. The back and forth going on now is just pointless.

[eggbutt]

@smoofox

This is now an actual legal matter - and not just a thread where posters are speculating, venting, discussing and sharing thoughts/concerns.

Once one of the “sides” appeared and began posting, questions were asked and answered. That is speculating, venting, discussing and sharing thoughts/concerns IMO. No one has been ugly, calling names, blaming anyone other than asking legitimate questions just as they did for 92 previous pages. As far as I can see, no one has crossed any legal boundaries.

[MeisterMagnolia]

@BigMama1

I don’t know why it’s such a struggle for people to grasp this. America’s gun loving culture or just willful blindness?

“unless she endangered his safety at the moment and he was defending himself, no other explanation is necessary. IMO” (Marla 100).

Right there is the reason why people have a hard time believing the “I’m innocent and did nothing to provoke anyone” story. I’m no gun lover and am not willfully blind. At this point, NO ONE KNOWS WHAT REALLY HAPPENED and clearly the person it happened to isn’t telling the whole truth and nothing but - especially as that story keeps changing. Credibility has flown out the window.