Woman Shot at Barisone Farm

[Danvers]

Was trying to respond to posts but it is posting as my own. ??? Hit quote to reply to a responses and it ends up under my name. Apologies need to get help on how to reply to these posts.

[Mara]

One aspect that has puzzled me from the beginning…first mentioned on LK’s FB page and then LaLa brought it up again here -
The assertion that MH was only with MB because he “promised her a spot on the Olympic team”. Does that not strike anyone else as at least a little bizarre? I mean, most adults know that the Olympics don’t work that way, and presumably MH has been in the dressage world long enough to know that no trainer can promise anyone an Olympic berth, no matter how many horses they have in training or how good they are in the sack.

Strange conjurings.

[eggbutt]

@Mara

One aspect that has puzzled me from the beginning…first mentioned on LK’s FB page and then LaLa brought it up again here -
The assertion that MH was only with MB because he “promised her a spot on the Olympic team”. Does that not strike anyone else as at least a little bizarre? I mean, most adults know that the Olympics don’t work that way, and presumably MH has been in the dressage world long enough to know that no trainer can promise anyone an Olympic berth, no matter how many horses they have in training or how good they are in the sack.

Strange conjurings.

Funny how jealous she is/was of MH. Notice how often she bashes her. If anything LK assumed MB would get her on the team…jumping from 3rd to Grand Prix in six months! Uh-huh.

As I recall MH won an individual gold medal in the NAYRC years ago and that’s nothing to sneeze at.

[Girl_Joey]

@Sticky Situation

So to be clear, I’ve said none of those things. Anyone can discuss and share opinions on whatever they want, I don’t judge anyone for a couple speeding tickets, and I never said you should say nothing. By all means, tell us whose gun it was and share the truth from the beginning.

Lauren Kanarek could not tell the truth if it slapped her in the face. She is a PATHOLOGICAL LIAR

[Girl_Joey]

@eggbutt

You’ll need to go back about 10 pages. LK explains one of her old dismissed arrests when she was jumped in a bar and defended herself with a mini cranberry juice bottle that was considered a dangerous weapon.

Ask her why her ex-husband‘s family had a restraining order on her

[eggbutt]

@Girl Joey

Ask her why her ex-husband‘s family had a restraining order on her

She says it’s all okay because everything was dismissed. She does not accept responsibility for anything.

[eggbutt]

@BigMama1

And yet none of this still is any legal justification for MB shooting her. We get that you don’t like her. We get that you have history. We get that she has pissed A LOT of people off but honestly, it doesn’t matter. Nobody here cares if she was a stripper or if she is / was a drug user. It’s none of our business and is not remotely germane to the discussion. I know you think somehow that sharing these stories will somehow help MB but it won’t. All you’re doing is the same thing you accuse LK of - spreading gossip and fueling rumours. Let is go. For your own mental health. Don’t get sucked into the crazy/

No, none of it is justification but it all points to LK’s character and patterns of behavior. I’m assuming that’s why the defense team was happy to hear from Girl Joey and others. LK has portrayed herself to be an innocent victim who did absolutely nothing to provoke the situation.

She’s STILL provoking…why is she still living in MB’s home?!! Does she now think she owns the place?!!

[Girl_Joey]

@ponypappy

Exactly. If this goes to trial. Everything about her will be examined.

She also claimed MB begged her to get trained by him. Try reversing that, this spoiled rich girls dad paid for MB to train her after a couple weeks nobody could stand having her there. In once sentence she claims “MB was a great trainer” in another sentence she claims what a horrible trainer he is, which is it? That is all dependent on if LK is getting her way. MB had a claim of her screaming at her father in his driveway, my Carmen claimed she has been doing that for as long as her knew her. She claimed MH was jealous of her, just as she advised me I was jealous of her, believe me sweetheart I feel sorry for how pathetic you are. I promise you this, there is not a jealous bone in my body. Why on earth would ANYBODY be jealous over you? You are so disgraceful

[MMacallister]

This thread is like watching a train crash into a UFO.

[CanteringCarrot]

[edit]

And whomever suggested LK come to Europe, no thank you! Please keep LK, SW, and NP on your side of the pond! :lol: I’m fine with being entertained from afar.

”‹”‹”‹”‹”‹“Normal” good-doing, law abiding people that mind their own business do not get wrapped up in stuff like this. Accidents happen and crazies act, so yes, people can get caught in odd stuff, but that’s not so common. So while no one deserves to be shot in this particular scenario (from what I/we know), I can’t say that any of this mess, from either side, would happen to a decent self minding person. Unfortunately, people do get shot unprovoked, which is not right at all! But I also wonder, what makes a reasonably successful man with no other record of violence (I think) suddenly resort to the drastic measure of shooting someone? Even if extremely frustrated, it is not a justification, but one still wonders and contemplates the complexities and emotions within this particular situation. It was stupid of him to shoot someone and rather short sighted. I don’t know if he was thinking straight, I mean, what would shooting LK really accomplish? Especially if he killed her? Ok she’d be dead or severely injured but how does that truly benefit anyone? It doesn’t. It’s not the way to solve the problem. There were seemingly other (legal) means.

It sucks because people that “know how to work the system” often come out on top, even if they’re despicable human beings. But it’s not one’s right to shoot, maim, or kill them.

Also, I don’t necessarily care what kind of situation someone is in, but do your homework on who you let into your life. It’s quite easy with social media these days, and it’s just not worth letting crap people into your life. It’s also not worth sticking around in a crappy situation. Leave. Even if it sets you back a bit financially, riding wide, horse wise, whatever! It’s worth it in the long run.

The positives are that no one died and hopefully people, even those just reading this thread, can learn what not to do or who not to be involved with from this CF of a situation.

[iris2006]

@Angela Freda

I don’t think people are trying to discourage her participation as much as suggesting her participation, at her own volition let’s be clear, is a poor plan considering the legal aspects of the situation. It’s not a “sit there and take it” command as much as it’s a suggestion to “let people speculate all they want, while you do you”

No one can force her to not post, as no one forced her to get on the forums, and then log in to post comments to begin with.
Choice. We all have it.

I asked a question about the mattress in the barn because out of everything I read, I thought that sounded the most odd, and she answered it politely. I followed up with one more question on the same topic, but then decided I was not going to continue to be involved in the thread, and just wanted to wish her well since she has been through a very traumatic experience. However, I do think it would be in her own best interest legally and possibly health wise to stay off of social media. As interesting as it is for all of us to read, we have no skin in the game.

[Sticky_Situation]

@MMacallister

This thread is like watching a train crash into a UFO.

Truer words have never been spoken. Every day the crazy train goes further and further off the rails.

[Angela_Freda]

@Mara

One aspect that has puzzled me from the beginning…first mentioned on LK’s FB page and then LaLa brought it up again here -
The assertion that MH was only with MB because he “promised her a spot on the Olympic team”. Does that not strike anyone else as at least a little bizarre? I mean, most adults know that the Olympics don’t work that way, and presumably MH has been in the dressage world long enough to know that no trainer can promise anyone an Olympic berth, no matter how many horses they have in training or how good they are in the sack.

Strange conjurings.

Yes. It’s ridiculous.

[snaffle1987]

@La-LaPopRider

Forensics are unnecessary. We know who gave mb the gun. She’s next to be arrested. Or, that’s the plan.
This case is cut and dried. I was shot in the middle of the day for NO reason. MB’s gf didn’t want us there- too bad. We don’t conduct biz w her. She wanted that house for herself ever Since she broke up mb and vk marriage. More to the story of course, but my attorneys prefer I say little as possible. Please, judge people only when YOU become perfect.

I suggest you take your attorneys suggestions [edit]. But I think that’s a little late now.

[Girl_Joey]

@La-LaPopRider

A.) We we not “squatting.” Nor were we EVER, at any point (and there are public records of this - or lack thereof at Washington twnshp pd) asked to leave. But cool story. We were just there today. Decided against staying only Bc of the trauma.
B.) I have zero convictions for cyber stalking OR assault. In 2003 (not that this explanation is owed to you- but everyone deserves a chance to save themselves from themselves) I was jumped by 7 girls at a bar. As I don’t drink, I was holding a mini cranberry juice bottle. I defended myself. The judge obviously agreed. C.) Never charged in my life for “cyber stalking,” ever. D.) You think MB’s record is clean? Think again. My charges (and all acquittals- since anyone can get anyone arrested- but it must be proven in a court of law) WERE DROPPED.

So, yes. Only one party here has a clean record. It’s NOT MB. Get your facts straight.

You never cyber bullied? Well I have about 500 messages to prove otherwise. I’m quite sure your ex in-laws have a restraining order against you. I also have six different woman and 1 man who will testify and show proof of your insanity. Should I show some proof? You are insane in the membrane

[eggbutt]

If they are still living in MB’s house, is she checking his mail? How did she know he just received a large check? Mail tampering is a Federal offense, isn’t it?

[suz]

Yo could ya stop with the shaming already? Who cares if someone strips for a living or for fun? Just Stop It.

[Sticky_Situation]

@suz

Yo could ya stop with the shaming already? Who cares if someone strips for a living or for fun? Just Stop It.

I agree. LK has exhibited plenty of questionable behavior that imo is fair game for discussion, but whether she’s a stripper or not is irrelevant.

[Girl_Joey]

[edit] She is lying about Mary Haskins, Michael Barisone and this whole situation. She always shifts blame, makes Disparaging and false allegations about everyone else, I’m just pointing out facts. My modus operandi is to see if she can be truthful about anything

[Girl_Joey]

LK has no restraint in shaming others. She fabricates stories about people and runs with it. People need to know [her] for what she really is. She completely made up the story of MH and her destroying a marriage, she made up stories about SW trying to shame her, she made up stories about me. LK is no virgin to falsely shamming others. I’m just running with FACTS