Woman Shot at Barisone Farm

[Dragonfly90]

@eggbutt

Amazing that someone created a brand new profile to simply post this one comment. Wonder why they couldn’t/wouldn’t post under their original account?

Simple answer, did post it under my original account because it is my original account. First time I have ever posted on any forum, against my better judgement. Interesting experience. Horses are calling, bye.

[caffeinated]

@catzndogz22

GJ, I think you would be well served to learning about grey rock method of dealing with a narcissist. LK has clearly tortured you in ways that are unimaginable to reasonable human beings. You know full well that she is following this thread. By continuing to engage, you are fueling the fire. Others here have attested to their own horrible experiences with LK, but yours is by far the most appalling. You know you are not alone. The only way snuff her fire is to stop feeding it.

I’m an atheist, but there’s a line I like that goes something like “let go and let God” - I think, GJ, this may apply here. Everybody who matters understands what you went through. We’ve seen enough here to get a pretty good grasp on it all, there’s not really anyone left who needs to be convinced about what you went through, or the kind of people involved. It’s fine too if you’re not at a place where you feel like you can step away and let the universe take care of it - it can take time to get there. But, I worry that by being here and contributing you might be stalling you in that space, and isn’t going to help you find any peace.

On another note, someone on this thread (sorry, too lazy to go look now) mentioned that some of these harassment campaigns started with heated arguments on politics forums/comment spaces. That’s as ridiculous as anything else I’ve read here, honestly. I’ve been on political forums for nearly twenty years, some that were very conservative spaces where I was one of the few proud liberals on board. I’ve been in many arguments, and don’t back down easily. I’ve never been stalked, harassed, etc, or done that in turn to anybody else. I may occasionally get a private message or angry note - but it’s never escalated beyond that. If this is repeatedly happening to LK, it might be worth considering the common denominator there. One can “fight back” in debate without being an aggressive a-hole to people. It’s a good life skill.

[2tempe]

@blue Saddle: LOVE the p![](nk part!!!

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[2tempe]

@ Blue Saddle. Thanks for chapter 3a. Love the p![](nk topic. And here you go: Yes he does wear it well.

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[eggbutt]

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@ Blue Saddle. Thanks for chapter 3a. Love the pink topic. And here you go: Yes he does wear it well.

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The shoes look great too! Yum!

[Girl_Joey]

Thank you all so much for concerns of my well being. Believe me when I say I have not even scratched the surface on the abuse LK administered. It will come to light during the trial, I gave everyone the entire conversation from both sides. I apologized to the detective & Attorney for some of the cursewords and things I said In return comments. I was so sickened that this girl posted on my fb wall that I murdered my son LK made a disguise post about people showing the entire conversation from both sides. Believe me I have no reservation on doing just that. It is funny because the first seven messages were pleas begging you to just leave me be. You just kept going and going and going driving me INSANE, similar to the torture you caused MB and the entire farm.

[Dragonfly90]

@caffeinated

I’m an atheist, but there’s a line I like that goes something like “let go and let God” - I think, GJ, this may apply here. Everybody who matters understands what you went through. We’ve seen enough here to get a pretty good grasp on it all, there’s not really anyone left who needs to be convinced about what you went through, or the kind of people involved. It’s fine too if you’re not at a place where you feel like you can step away and let the universe take care of it - it can take time to get there. But, I worry that by being here and contributing you might be stalling you in that space, and isn’t going to help you find any peace.

On another note, someone on this thread (sorry, too lazy to go look now) mentioned that some of these harassment campaigns started with heated arguments on politics forums/comment spaces. That’s as ridiculous as anything else I’ve read here, honestly. I’ve been on political forums for nearly twenty years, some that were very conservative spaces where I was one of the few proud liberals on board. I’ve been in many arguments, and don’t back down easily. I’ve never been stalked, harassed, etc, or done that in turn to anybody else. I may occasionally get a private message or angry note - but it’s never escalated beyond that. If this is repeatedly happening to LK, it might be worth considering the common denominator there. One can “fight back” in debate without being an aggressive a-hole to people. It’s a good life skill.

Hi, that would be me. LK lists herself as a political activist and that was noted online, people have posted on the topic of the shooting that she hates Trump, that they go on political forums and how it get testy, another posted on this forum that she told everyone about LK and even notified Trump. It is not a big jump to think some of the back and forth became very nasty(on both sides)and politics could have been part of some of these online attacks. I can’t think my comment would even make the top 10 of ridiculous comments on this thread. Otherwise, I agree 100 % with you and your post and I am seriously glad you can navigate conservative political forums and and keep it civil. But people on this thread are not keeping it civil. My point is that if someone is being an “aggressive a-hole” to you and you fight back in kind with just as nasty personal attacks and lies(which is your prerogative), then you can’t cry “bully”. And as always, nothing has been shown that justifies her being shot.

[MysticOakRanch]

Totally off topic, but this thread could hit 3000 replies! Is that a record for COTH?

[Maude]

@Girl Joey

Thank you all so much for concerns of my well being. Believe me when I say I have not even scratched the surface on the abuse LK administered. It will come to light during the trial, I gave everyone the entire conversation from both sides. I apologized to the detective & Attorney for some of the cursewords and things I said In return comments. I was so sickened that this girl posted on my fb wall that I murdered my son LK made a disguise post about people showing the entire conversation from both sides. Believe me I have no reservation on doing just that. It is funny because the first seven messages were pleas begging you to just leave me be. You just kept going and going and going driving me INSANE, similar to the torture you caused MB and the entire farm.

Girl Joey, if you continue to post you will end up hurting the defense and they will not even put you on the stand. So you will never have your day in court. Every one that has been reading this knows what she has done to you. Please if you want to help MB, stop.

[caffeinated]

@MysticOakRanch

Totally off topic, but this thread could hit 3000 replies! Is that a record for COTH?

Nah. I’m sure there are bigger and crazier threads. LOL

(but I’ve been here since the dark ages)

[MorganSercu]

@Maude

Girl Joey, if you continue to post you will end up hurting the defense and they will not even put you on the stand. So you will never have your day in court. Every one that has been reading this knows what she has done to you. Please if you want to help MB, stop.

^^^^^^ THIS! ^^^^^^

[caffeinated]

@Dragonfly90

Hi, that would be me. LK lists herself as a political activist and that was noted online, people have posted on the topic of the shooting that she hates Trump, that they go on political forums and how it get testy, another posted on this forum that she told everyone about LK and even notified Trump. It is not a big jump to think some of the back and forth became very nasty(on both sides)and politics could have been part of some of these online attacks. I can’t think my comment would even make the top 10 of ridiculous comments on this thread. Otherwise, I agree 100 % with you and your post and I am seriously glad you can navigate conservative political forums and and keep it civil. But people on this thread are not keeping it civil. My point is that if someone is being an “aggressive a-hole” to you and you fight back in kind with just as nasty personal attacks and lies(which is your prerogative), then you can’t cry “bully”. And as always, nothing has been shown that justifies her being shot.

Here’s the thing - if one’s participation in political discussions has led, more than once, to people being aggressive and singling you out (via private messages or emails or on FB or whatever), that suggests to me that there is a common denominator problem. Responding in kind and “fighting back” is pointless, escalating behavior and not normal.

In over twenty years online I can count “nasty” PMs or other such things that I’ve received on one hand. If she’s had it happen often enough that there are all these stories and experiences out there, that suggests to me that she enjoys that sort of drama and likely plays a role in instigating it.

Basically, I don’t think it’s really a “defense” or explains away a history of that sort of behavior to say others started it (than again, after all my time on the interwebs, it does also hold true that drama finds drama… somehow people who live in this sort of histrionic crazytown seem to find and amplify each other).

[Girl_Joey]

@Dragonfly90

Simple answer, did post it under my original account because it is my original account. First time I have ever posted on any forum, against my better judgement. Interesting experience. Horses are calling, bye.

I have a very strong feeling that was Lauren who post because a LARGE portion of her messages to me included that same. “Bye” after her cruel comment.

[Dragonfly90]

@caffeinated

Here’s the thing - if one’s participation in political discussions has led, more than once, to people being aggressive and singling you out (via private messages or emails or on FB or whatever), that suggests to me that there is a common denominator problem. Responding in kind and “fighting back” is pointless, escalating behavior and not normal.

In over twenty years online I can count “nasty” PMs or other such things that I’ve received on one hand. If she’s had it happen often enough that there are all these stories and experiences out there, that suggests to me that she enjoys that sort of drama and likely plays a role in instigating it.

Basically, I don’t think it’s really a “defense” or explains away a history of that sort of behavior to say others started it (than again, after all my time on the interwebs, it does also hold true that drama finds drama… somehow people who live in this sort of histrionic crazytown seem to find and amplify each other).

[Dragonfly90]

I agree with you. I have never posted on a forum before, made my first comment here and have already been accused of creating a new identity to cover who I really was and I think also accused of being LK. That’s ok but nope. Just a 70 yr old lady still getting on a horse with an opinion.
Oops, should have said old lady with an opinion, not “horse with an opinion.“ On second thought my mare is quite opinionated. Love her! 😊

[FitzE]

I’ve read COTH for years, but don’t post b/c I no longer ride. I follow along for nostalgia and to keep abreast of new developments in the various sports. I only created an account recently when the 2nd Japanese Olympic lottery ended and my Japanese friend got no tickets so I hoped to find some here. But, growing up in the NE, I was drawn to this story and just binge read this whole thread.

My main take away is: when you find yourself involved in a lot of drama, you must look at yourself. One thing happens? Okay, stuff happens. Two? Whoa - unlucky. More than that? If you have even average intelligence you have to step back and say: I am the common denominator. The shooting victim here seems not to grasp that idea.

She says she has a “squeaky clean” record. Hon, no, you don’t. I have a squeaky clean record and you know what that is? It’s the fact that you can search my name in every state I’ve lived in (4) AND every foreign country I’ve lived in (5) and you will find literally nothing. Not even a speeding ticket, but certainly nothing like trespassing, assault with a deadly weapon, stalking, etc. I mean no. thing. That is a squeaky clean record.

I drink socially and I have never, not once, been in an altercation in a bar. And this includes carrying a drunk friend out of a bar in a famous night life area in Asia with locals hazing us as we tried to get this girl into a cab. Still nothing. So, no, LaLa - you don’t have a squeaky clean record. For your own sake you need to realize that your life and your experiences are outside the normal range and not in a good way.Getting shot doesn’t make you a good person. Sometimes bad things happen to bad people. That could include MB, too.

I’m also a lawyer licensed in the State of New York and I know that they have MB dead to rights: you don’t get to shoot people to resolve conflict. MB dug his own grave and he will lie in it, rightfully so. But LK has no look in here. As others have pointed out, she isn’t a party to his prosecution. It will be the State of NJ v. MB. A civil case may follow, but right now she has very little to do with it. GJ and others posting here don’t help or hurt the case. Their posts are meaningless to the case. They have relevant testimony or they don’t. Airing it here changes nothing, legally.

GJ, don’t let anyone brow beat you. Post what you want or stay silent. Neither choice will have any legal effect. If it helps you to get it all out there, then get it out. If it draws LK’s attention back to you, then stay quiet. Play it like you feel it.

[ponypappy]

@eggbutt

This is LK’s, aka @La-LaPopRider post on 9/8:

“Those “many people,” will demand a refund when they hear what actually happened. Mb has a great lawyer. As he should. He may have shot me trying to murder me, but he’s entitled to the best defense possible. He is gonna need it. Save your money. Mb just got a big fat insurance check. Bc… well, that’s how conmen roll.” (bold is my emphasis)

This was the day she went by the apartment to gather some clothing. How did she know he received an insurance check? Others close to him did not know that at the time.

Well, it won’t be going to LK. The lawyers get it know! Someone should alert his attorney or investigator to the fact that she is aware of this information without having the privilege of knowing it. Going through his mail is a problem for her. She really is the gift that keeps on giving to the defense.

[alternatesideparking]

Originally posted by Girl Joey View Post
Another thing I am quite curious about. How a super rich limitless on funds girl qualifies for Obama Care? It’s Mind boggling

Re: Obamacare.

ANYONE who does not have employer sponsored insurance can buy a policy on the marketplace, assuming there’s an insurer who participates in their area.

There’s no “qualifying”; that’s the point of the marketplace.

Individuals who meet certain income standards may qualify for subsidized coverage on the marketplace; if you don’t qualify for the subsidy, you can still buy coverage, you’ll just pay the full cost.

For people who are self-employed, don’t work, or work for small businesses, buying a policy on the marketplace is a better/less expensive option than truly private health insurance because of pooled risk.

So, having “ACA coverage” (in quotes, because that’s not actually a thing) is not a poverty signifier; not like Medicaid or ADC.

[ponypappy]

My favorite quote in the thread.

By far the clearest nonsense on this thread comes from those who insist that they have every right to discuss events, but people (deemed to be) on a certain side of this issue should just shut up. That’s some hard core hypocrisy.

[Dragonfly90]

@Girl Joey

I have a very strong feeling that was Lauren who post because a LARGE portion of her messages to me included that same. “Bye” after her cruel comment.

Nope, I have never nor would ever post a cruel comment.