MB update

[Joanne]

@Virginia_Horse_Mom

Apparently, per one now deleted post on YT, LK and the family might even hold a press conference where they play the tapes of the murder plot!!!

Hopefully someone took a screen shot of that.

[hut-ho78]

Barisone Trial Starting Monday, 3/28

I think if he can get a not guilty by insanity and self defense then he has a chance to go on with his life. He may be institutionalized and treated for a time but that may be a short time. If he is not guilty then SafeSport might reinstate him. I said before he may feel he has nothing to lose to fight it all the way. Some have said he still has a chance for just a plain not guilty. If so, then he really has cause to fight it. If he is convicted of attempted murder or attempted manslaughter b…

Someone impugned my integrity earlier and said I never said that NGRI was a good verdict for MB. This one wasn’t even my first post on it.

Carry on.

[smoofox]

@CurrentlyHorseless

I do object to human beings, however flawed, being convicted in the SM court of public opinion. It doesn’t have the safeguards that are in place in actual criminal and civil courts. Also, it seems to make much too easy for people to indulge in “the pleasure of hate”.

Sadly, you have just described LK’s merry activities on SM. She judges and condemns anyone who dares to not agree with her 100%. She has tried, convicted and passed sentence on MB the Murderer many times over - as well as other “crimes” she darkly hints at. She has smugly hinted of great revelations that will mess MB’s life up even more. She seems to revel in the new favorite catch phrase of angst… the pleasure of hate, indeed - and has delighted in it.

But then you have said you have not seen her posts on YT/SM. So I guess the tunnel vision and hypocrisy can be ever so slightly excused (very slightly)… even though she carried on in many COTH threads in the exact same way and with far more YELLING at times!

Pretending none of that behavior exists is not having “empathy” …

[CanteringCarrot]

@CurrentlyHorseless

disapproval to the few posters who have expressed empathy for her, and bother to post straightforward, valid interpretations of the verdict.

“Straightforward, valid interpretations of the verdict.” Please, who do you think you’re kidding?

[trubandloki]

@eggbutt

Honestly, it really comes down to saying whatever they dream up to support their illogical fantasy.

This falls into the category of interesting things I have learned here on COTH, this one not so horse related but still interesting.
I never realized there were so many people in the world who go thru life telling one lie after another because that is how they do life.

@erinmeri

So, I guess I can ask you not to rehash the past, but please do NOT imply it was me who broached these topics. That is dishonest.

It appears that to some being dishonest is OK if it is a means to them winning in the end.

@Knights_Mom

’m thinking the next jury will have the reaction of WTF?

Followed by “who does that?”!

@smoofox, great post!

[DownYonder]

@BatCoach

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[MorganSercu]

@smoofox

She seems to revel in the new favorite catch phrase of angst… the pleasure of hate ,

Dragonfly90 brought that one up in September 2019 - “Compulsive Hatred Disorder”. Stated it was a diagnosis. It isn’t and was to be found in the Urban Dictionary.

[Virginia_Horse_Mom]

@trubandloki

@eggbutt

Honestly, it really comes down to saying whatever they dream up to support their illogical fantasy.

This falls into the category of interesting things I have learned here on COTH, this one not so horse related but still interesting.
I never realized there were so many people in the world who go thru life telling one lie after another because that is how they do life.

@erinmeri

So, I guess I can ask you not to rehash the past, but please do NOT imply it was me who broached these topics. That is dishonest.

It appears that to some being dishonest is OK if it is a means to them winning in the end.

The whole lying aspect of this situation, and the social media discussions about it all? It’s interesting… in an ugly, ongoing car wreck sort of way.

It is alarming and disturbing when you come across habitual liars, who seem to lack any shame when they are caught. With some of the key people in this situation, it seems to always be a matter of deflect, deny, counter accuse. Over and over again.

Honestly, I don’t really know how a human being can go through life that way. It’s so much healthier and easier to just be honest. Accept that things don’t always go your way. Accept your own screw ups, and apologize. Keep moving forward with life, and learn from the failures, and do better. When a person constantly lies to themselves and others? Their life gets stuck. No improvement. No upward trajectory in a personal sense.

It’s deeply dysfunctional and sad.

[Virginia_Horse_Mom]

@MorganSercu

@smoofox

She seems to revel in the new favorite catch phrase of angst… the pleasure of hate ,

Dragonfly90 brought that one up in September 2019 - “Compulsive Hatred Disorder”. Stated it was a diagnosis. It isn’t and was to be found in the Urban Dictionary.

Someone has a deep NEED to be a victim. It’s been that way all along.

I think the fact that so many people felt sympathy for MB after watching the trial really rattled and upset her.

[MorganSercu]

https://www.changeboard.com/article-details/17186/nutshell-how-to-escape-the-drama-triangle/

He’s updated it since then, but it still holds true.

https://karpmandramatriangle.com/

[eggbutt]

I glanced over this “pleasure of hate” stuff recently. It applies 100% to the individual at the center of this situation! I guess they are exempt from the accusations of promoters of hate.

There will always be deniers in this country regardless of proven facts. Similar to MAGA supporters, Sandy Hook deniers, J6 supporters, etc. There is no benefit to attempt to educated these folks, so my choice, at least for today, is to ignore them and not expend any energy on their “arguments and misunderstandings”.

Have a great morning all!

RULE!

[Knights_Mom]

Remember, when speaking of LK, we are speaking of someone who tried to BULLY multiple people on these very pages. There is a history of bullying with this one, often with lies upon lies upon lies. She will say anything in order to dominate, ridicule and bully.

This whole notion of the ‘pleasure of hate’ or ‘compulsive hatred disorder’ being used to describe normal, valid reactions towards this person of profound malice is laughable and quite frankly insulting to our intelligence. Disingenuous seems too light a term to describe this.

To my mind what we put out into the universe is returned to us threefold. And judging by the words and actions of the malicious she-ninja it cannot be a surprise to anyone that she remains a pariah, relagated now to the role of evil succubus to many here, on YouTube and in the dressage world.

Her reputation is such that in equestrian circles talk about her is done in hushed, cautious tones, lest her ire and wrath be raised. Only utterances in whispers between friends is done.

But by all means continue to scold and malign those who would call her out for her transgressions. Those who would predict in what direction karma will take her. Those who hope that someone like MB swept up in her web of unnecesary drama and wanton deceit , prevails to recover their life.

By all means continue to rally on behalf of the very same person who would not help another as it is not her nature to do so.

Go out on a limb for a being who would never ever do such for you. Or anyone.

And then by all means continue to scold the world that the problem is everyone else.

The Civil trial will bring to light every lurid detail. Every malignant act. Every insult and plot and vile reasoning and the judgment by the world against LK promises to be epic in scale.

Maybe instead of musing about the pleasure of hate or compulsive hatred disorder it would be far more reasonable to discuss the epic self destructive behavior by those who seek to dominate others.

[ohnoO]

@Virginia_Horse_Mom

I think the fact that so many people felt sympathy for MB after watching the trial really rattled and upset her.

Not to mention the “the bombshell” was hardly a blip on the radar!

[trubandloki]

@ohnoO

@Virginia_Horse_Mom

I think the fact that so many people felt sympathy for MB after watching the trial really rattled and upset her.

Not to mention the “the bombshell” was hardly a blip on the radar!

I think she thinks her bombshell was truly a bombshell and we are just pretending it was a blip.

Edit to clarify - I am not saying we ARE pretending. I am saying LK likely thinks we are pretending.

[ohnoO]

I don’t think we are pretending, are we?

In ED’s testimony he said he heard two shots which lines up with the cops only finding two casings. Although I remember at the time thinking his testimony made LK’s/RG’s recall of events even more confusing.

[Knights_Mom]

@ohnoO

I don’t think we are pretending, are we?

In ED’s testimony he said he heard two shots which lines up with the cops only finding two casings. Although I remember at the time thinking his testimony made LK’s/RG’s recall of events even more confusing.

LKs/RGs recall is confusing because it’s a fabrication. A ruse. A lie.

[Wilbury_Pie]

Straightforward on the windy bendy path to nowhere.

[trubandloki]

@ohnoO

I don’t think we are pretending, are we?

No, I do not think that at all.

I was saying that she likely thinks we are pretending.

Sorry I was not clear.

[DownYonder]

@Virginia_Horse_Mom

Someone has a deep NEED to be a victim.

Because by being a victim, she gets ATTENTION. It is salve for a soul wounded by REJECTION.

[trubandloki]

@DownYonder

@Virginia_Horse_Mom

Someone has a deep NEED to be a victim.

Because by being a victim, she gets ATTENTION. It is salve for a soul wounded by REJECTION.

To some people any attention is good attention.